7.14.2004

Things are looking up....

Finally went and saw Farenheit 911. IT wasn't as fantastic I had hoped. But it certainly has a message. I went with Loverboy. He was in a good mood and stayed for the whole movie ( I did have to warn him that I wouldn't leave if he chose to). IT was nice. We walked home and stopped off for a 'dog with Ben Kerr. Something about sitting at Yonge and Bloor. We two have done it many times.... I love to just sit there on the steps and enjoy it. He talked incessantly about his girl - which was annoying as hell - but really - I have done the same in the past to him - It is only fair. She wants to meet me - how wonderful :( I don't know if I trust myself in that situation. I am surprised that Loverboy has. But then again - she has to meet someone from his life right? She knows his roomate. THat is it. I am a better option than the parents and sister.

I do have some interesting facts that I have noticed as well and feel it is time to note them now:

He said I was being rude lately to him. I said that I was more than polite and unintrussive - I barely call or invade. I think he just wanted to get a rise outta me. Point For Nice lady.

He called me today (twice) and talked for hours ( not about the girl either).
He told me that she had changed her schedule last week so that they have the same days off. He didn't necessarily sound too pleased about it. Now is sex party time though -so it isn't really an issue yet. But if I know one thing - I know that loverboy treasures his alone time. This may be an issue. He also has eluded to the fact that she is really reallly into him. Like really - she has whispered "i love yous' into his hair. After 3 weeks.

Today he asked me why I don't call him anymore. (BINGO - we have a hit folks). I said why bother if I know you won't answer if you are with your girl. And you barely call me back. He immediately told me that he was in the shower the last time I called him ( as if he knew when it was - I had even forgotten). I asked why he didn't call me back at all - and he said he was abusy ( aka fucking like a bastard).

He talked about moving to Newfoundland because she is from there - I said that seemed quick - and would he really move there? Sucha city boy he is. He shot back immediately about how I was going to move to Timmins. ( the miner is a sore spot). I said " does this mean that if I don't move to timmins - you won't?? his answer was vague ( what a fucking surprise)

SO that is what is going on this week. Very interesting. I think that the sex thing is wearing off. I wonder if they have things to actually talk about. I know the romance thing is good - but only for so long.

I know this sounds like I am still living in the pipe dream.. and I am not. I just take pleasure in the fact that he misses me. He hasn't missed me in a long long time. Who knew this is how it was going to happen.


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